| Chapter 5 - The beliefs |
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\"The conviction, which can be for me to turn into the truth ... is one that allows me the best use of my strength and it is for me the best means to harness the benefits of my actions.\" André Gide < br /> When I think about the strength of their convictions and a strong impact on our lives comes to mind certain holidays, during which I saw what it really means to be a good podrywacze. I went with a friend over the sea where we meet his friends. One of them was to be a boy, which I have heard that it is extremely effective womanizer. They told me that for him is not to undermine women. In my eyes grew image of a tall, well-built hunk with a mysterious look, which acts as a magnet for women. The first time I met him, all my ideas lay in ruins. Instead of tall, charming hunk I saw a normal, low, average guy. The first thought which came to my mind was\' what do they all see in him. \" I wondered why the average guy to attract all the girls wherever he was. After a few days when a little close friends, I noticed that there was something different then our other guys from Playboy. It was his belief in the success and confidence. Whatever the outcome of which approached, he was always smiling, cheerful, and confident of its success. That\'s evident self-confidence stemmed from the belief that all the girls with whom contact has thought only about sex, and each of their actions contradicted this thesis is only a form of disguise that embarrassing fact for them. As you can realize any further behavior of the girl, was interpreted by him in one way - the hidden desire for sex. Conditions of feminine coquetry he was able to find almost any behavior. Refusal by dating a girl for him was an attempt to show independence, and disagreement on the kiss of information, as it used to say that \"still has to wait.\" Although his thinking seemed to us absurd, the results of his jealous boyfriend all the guys in the holiday resort. His performance did not result in wealth, extraordinary beauty and uncommon personality, but only with the confidence that struck him at first contact. | | |